08.22.07
Daddy’s Little Girl
Powerful. Emotional. Inspirational. It really did hit home for me as I am sure it did for many of you who saw this well-scripted movie. Tyler Perry really does have a way of telling a story.
Daddy’s Little Girl was about a young, black man struggling to financially provide for his three daughters who live with their maternal grandmother. This plot gets interesting when the grandmother dies and the father is left with the option of either moving his daughters into his one-bedroom apartment in Georgia or having their mother raise them with her drug dealer boyfriend. Of course he chose to move them with him but the plot twists and the evil mother gets custody of their daughters.
In the end, after many trials, he gets his children back and a new woman…..his lawyer. Nice ending to the story. It really tugged at the heart strings.
Daddy’s little girl…hmm…my mom calls me that sometimes. She has told me story after story of my younger years with daddy dearest.
Many restless nights were spent because I was and still am a night person. So he had to hold me over his shoulder and pace the room until I was sound asleep.
Bath time was always the hardest and most painful, because daddy was determined to scrub us clean. I still remember a bath time where it hurt to be in our own skin. You wouldn’t dare soil yourself or even think about using the restroom.
He was protective. We always had a doctor in the house when one of us came down with a cold or worse, the chickenpox.
Hey miss smartypants. So what if we don’t use that term anymore. I like it. I played that role for many years. Being a “B” student was never good enough, not even an A. It had to be an A+ in every subject or else.
Teenage years. I wandered away from my dad. We became estranged.
No more report cards. I was out on my own. Went from A’s and B’s to B’s and C’s and even an F.
Summer school. Boyfriends. Lots of changes.
Maturity and common sense set in. You’re the eldest, what type of example are you setting for your siblings?
Reality check! Thanks to Genius, you know who you are.
Daddy and I are friends again. Maybe a little too close…with those jokes and all.
Either way, I don’t mind being “daddy’s little girl” after all, we have a few things in common.
And besides, everyone knows that I’m the favorite daughter.
With Age Comes Responsibility
Put away your toys
before someone gets hurt.
Fix your bed.
Elementary.
Hang up your clothes.
Wash the dishes.
Junior high.
Do your laundry.
Keep an eye out for your siblings.
Be a role model, take look up to you.
You are the eldest.
Babysit. Babysat.
High school.
Grow up and get a job.
Pay the bills.
Manage your finances.
Stay in school. You won’t survive without a four-year degree.
Graduation.
College.
Freedom?
Far from it.
Change the diapers.
Be a man and assume responsibility for your child.
Dad not a father.
What kind of mother are you?
Balance the mortage and school tuition.
Tidy up, guests are coming.
Adulthood.
Heartache
Beat, beat, beat
is the sound my heart
makes as blood rushes in and
out of the many veins and arteries
that help me live each day.
Dark clouds cover my once brightly lit horizon.
Sadness overpowers me and I am left alone to grieve.
What is this strange pain that I feel?
Out of the ordinary
yet quite normal.
I have felt this pain before, long ago.
Why has it come back?
Why now?
How?
I just can’t understand.
Anger. Frustration. Sadness. Heartache.
Have I gotten over you or do I still love you?
Why do I even care…you never did?
Blood trickles down my chest as tears flow down my cheeks after you tore out my heart.
Can I move on? When? How?
Will I ever love again? Who?
Will he be the same?
Tall, dark, and handsome…maybe?
Will my heart ache once again?
Can I ever know the true meaning of happiness?
Answers and love are what I seek.
And yet my search is not over………………