It’s a damn shame when you see two women fighting over a man. Where’s the dignity and self-confidence? Take for instance the video, “The Boy is Mine” starring Brandy and Monica. These two beautiful ladies arguing about a guy.  In this situation, however the guy was a player. Is it validation that you’re seeking? The sad reality is when two women argue over a man, the only winner is the man who usually is not worthy. Where is the sisterhood? Let’s take a look!

I can understand why one would feel the need to fight to keep a man especially since we pretty much outnumber them eight to one, but to embarrass yourself–now that is another story.

Although I have never fought over a man because it’s child’s play, ridiculous, and quite demeaning, I have heard and seen it happen. I just can’t understand why a woman would even bother with it except if she was INSECURE with herself.

Insecurity, whether we choose to accept it or not, puts us in vulnerable positions which lead to senseless behavior.

We are all grown, well at least I would like to think so, and that means we need to get over ourselves.

If a significant other chooses not to love us anymore then let it go. Harassing and stalking the person and embarassing yourself by looking pathetic is not going to increase your chances of rekindling the old flame. It will only push him or her further away. I mean think about it for a second.

Can you imagine yourself returning to your boyfriend or girlfriend after he or she has called you over five times and constantly interrogates you as if you were a criminal? I don’t think so. If you yourself were in your right frame of mind, you would assume that this person has lost his or her damn mind and you need to keep your distance for your own safety.

In the end, your unacceptable behavior adds to the list of other issues that arose in the relationship which led to its demise.